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Find your teachers: Kathy Halper

4/12/2015

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"Find your teachers."

          Unknown.
          (But it's a quote on my wall and I look at & think about these words every day).

In 2009, I joined Facebook and slunk around all the pages belonging to people I went to high school with, saw what everyone looked like ... err ... I mean, was up to ... and then didn't to go to my 20-year class reunion because I slid off the earth with my 2-year old and newborn.

Social media cooked right along without me.

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
"No Pants," Kathy Halper, Hand Embroidery on Linen, 22″ x 18,″ 2013.

I'm that late-adopter mom who writes epic text messages with her pointer finger. And edits before sending. I edit and re-edit Facebook posts. I edit posts I wrote 2 weeks ago. I'd edit your posts if I could. I write snarky posts and cancel them because I'm a Facebook Weenie and can't imagine adding more conflict to my existing life-drama of "Why do we always have to eat a yucky dinner?" 

I also go to bed at 9 pm.

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
"Danceaholics," Kathy Halper, Embroidery on Linen,19.5″ x 19,″ framed.

So when I saw Kathy Halper's embroidery work online last year, I had to contact her. If there was one thing I could learn from this person -- amid my riot of small children and exhaustion and yucky dinners and the wondering what the hell I was doing with my artwork all the while editing myself into oblivion -- it was, perhaps, how to just be.

          -How to be contemporary while working in a traditional medium. 
          -How to create work that feels spontaneous, yet well crafted.
          -How to use language to make a social point.
          -How to be better at listening.
          -How to be heard.
        
          -How to find my voice.

Meet Kathy Halper, I found her for you. We've been exchanging a mile-long thread still connected to my original email, with the subject heading "Awesome Work." When I see this in the inbox, it always means I have a good excuse to cuss ( I don't in person), whine a bit (okay, I do whine in person), keep it real, bare it all and edit that shit, of course. 

Kathy Halper, Chicago Area, Illinois USA

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper



Artist Statement:

I transitioned from painting to hand embroidery when a series I was developing begged for a more personal maternal touch. In doing so, I discovered how much clearer my voice seems to be in this medium and how much joy I find creating the work. So after exploring social media and privacy issues as seen through our youth (i.e. my children) I'm continuing to “paint with thread” in my new series, which is a collection of thoughts that take stock of my life at what feels like a very transitional time.

Best advice given freely but never followed:
Get off your ass.
Seriously, as far as my art career is concerned, I’ve been pretty good about following the advice I give others, which is to set your sights on a goal, meet people along the way, develop relationships, work hard on your art and jump at opportunities when they’re presented to you.

Opting out of:
The 9-5 world. I had a brief return to the the business world this past year, acting as Marketing Manager for an ecommerce company. Turns out, after years of running loose as an artist and mom, I’m no longer domesticated enough to be in captivity.

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
"Epic Party," Hand Embroidery & Machine Stitching on Linen, 52″ x 52,″ 2012.

Exercising:
Not currently. Not recently. But definitely in the future.

Watching:
What don’t I watch!?! Downton Abbey, Shameless, Girls, The Good Wife, The Daily Show, Last Week with John Oliver, Better Call Saul, New Girl, Nashville, The Americans, House of Cards, any new movies On Demand ... In my defense, I spend a lot of time sitting embroidering so while my brain turns to mush my hands keep moving.

Spending too much money on:
Colleges

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
"Bored Out Of My Mind," Hand Embroidery on Fabric, 14″ x 11,″ 2013.
Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
"What The F**k," Hand Embroidery on Fabric, 11″ x 14," 2012.

Currently working on:
A series of embroidered narratives that are forcing me to examine my life at 56. I became an empty nester this year and I can see 60 from my front yard. This is forcing me to think about the ways life has not turned out as I imagined it would. I’m finding the work therapeutic in giving me closure and giving me a way to say goodbye to things that are no longer. It may sound depressing but I don’t believe the work comes across that way. We will see. 

Hoping to learn:
How to make money as an artist.

Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
Kathy Halper, work in progress.
Kathy Halper, contemporary embroidery. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
Kathy Halper, work in progress.

On Voice and Truth:
I wish I could give a formula for finding voice, but I honestly believe my voice found me. And it took a couple of decades.

It seemed to emerge when after years of “trying on” different voices I finally created a body of work that incorporated so many disparate parts of my life:

          -My adolescent love of needle crafts.
          -My life as a mother of teenagers.
          -My focus on figurative art exploring relationships.
          -My love of wordplay from my days as a copywriter.
          -My fascination with pop culture and the discovery of Facebook.

It’s like I put them all in a blender and my social media embroideries came out.

I never got a formal art education, but my daughter is getting a BFA so I have an idea now of what I missed. It’s taken me close to 20 years to create the work that feels like “my voice,” and I believe a good art education could've shortened that journey enormously. To be challenged every day by other artists' voices and forced to explore other mediums and study art history would’ve been such a wonderful experience. Yet I also realize that the work I’m doing now could’ve only come from my years of trial and error and my life experiences.

Years ago I made a lot of money doing commissioned paintings for clients of an interior decorator. I would do whatever they wanted to match the living room and go with their decor. As we struggle to pay for college educations, I often wonder why I don’t go back to this lucrative side job. But since I've found my voice, I've come to realize that I'm incapable of not being true to it. 


For more of Kathy Halper's work:
Yes, and about that "making money as an artist part," check out Kathy's etsy shop for some little bits of voice that might just reflect your very own: www.kathyhalperdesigns.com.

And for further Awesome Work (of the fine art variety), head to www.kathyhalper.com.

Kathy Halper, artist. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
Kathy Halper, artist. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper
Embroidered pendants. www.kathyhalperdesigns.com
Kathy Halper, artist. From the post Find your teachers: Kathy Halper. www.amymeissner.com/blog/find-your-teachers-kathy-halper


Hey, if you're a Curious Learner type, you'll also like the post Find your teachers: Bren Ahearn.


10 Comments
Roxanne Lasky link
4/12/2015 05:39:44 am

I open this link each time with breathless anticipation. You do not disappoint. Kathy seems to have a real grip on the issues of motherhood, voice, aging and being an artist…stitching forward, doing the "thing" that can't not be done. Your bringing her into focus for this humble follower deserves another big "thank you."

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Amy Meissner link
4/12/2015 06:06:57 am

Dear Roxanne,
Only in my silly dream is there someone out there who is anticipating my blog posts with breathless anticipation, and this is the person I write for EVERY TIME. Oh, and for myself. So, Roxanne, I will always write with you in mind and will try my hardest to never waste your time here. I'm so thrilled that you found a connection with Kathy Halper's work ... I dare say I consider her a friend at this point even though we have not, nor may never meet in person. Many thanks for your kind words from the both of us (see, she and I are so tight I can speak for her).
XO
Amy

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Gail Baar
4/12/2015 08:42:01 am

Thanks Amy, what an interesting post. I learned a lot-thanks for sharing a new artist-she lives near me too! It made me think, why do I sew instead of paint? How do we choose what we do? I went into music first, then art and I have learned not to be resentful, because I think it had to happen that way. Thanks again for writing.

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Amy Meissner link
4/12/2015 12:03:48 pm

Dear Gail,
The beautiful thing is, you will ALWAYS have music. And while you might feel at times (or perhaps I'm projecting) that it was a path that veered away from where you are now with your art, or that perhaps you'd be further along just because you would have had more time with this current art form, who's to say that the time pursuing music hasn't informed your craft? As a follower of many paths, I could call myself a bitter quitter, or concede to the idea that the strongest rope is comprised of many strands. You either weave in and reinforce the frayed ends in order to move on, or you linger at the weak points and hope things don't fall apart ... I think that's the greater choice to make.

If you live close to Kathy Halper, you should figure out how to see her work in person. Oh, just go bang on her door. I'm kidding. Email her. She's super.
XO Amy

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Lorie McCown link
4/12/2015 10:07:12 pm

Oh man, she is in the same boat as I am. A mother of young adults.In college. Parties. oh yes. The fact that it translates so well in her work is really a testament to her focus.

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Amy Meissner link
4/19/2015 01:04:14 am

Lorie--I'm sure Kathy would appreciate your words. I'm still slogging through the small child swamp here, so the concept of college parties feels both remote and terrifying at the same time. Yes, they're yanking on me, but at least I know where they are....
XO Amy

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Olga link
4/13/2015 12:36:44 am

Fascinating, as ever. I always set time aside to enjoy your posts fully.
Thank you for the introduction to Kathy Halper, and the interview - love the questions, and the answers!

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Amy Meissner link
4/19/2015 01:09:05 am

Olga, I love that you set aside time to read these posts because I set aside time to write them in the hopes that someone will set aside time to read them, so that I will feel inspired to set aside time to write more ... it's kind of a set-aside time circle. I will keep you in mind when I write and try really hard not to post unedited, wasteful gunk.
XO Amy

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Suzi link
4/14/2015 08:17:44 am

I love this post, so many take away gems and a wonderful sense of humour in your opening intro. I think I'm you twin on some of those behaviours! Having only recently tried Drawing and Sketching with Thread and with an eye for the contemporary life and as a subject and a very similar creative journey and role, I've loved being introduced to Kathy's work. Thank you.

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Amy Meissner link
4/19/2015 01:12:02 am

Suzi,
It sounds like you were introduced to Kathy's work at just the right time to really inspire. I'm always amazed when this happens to me and I think it's a testament to remaining open in one's artistic life to receive just the right energy when needed. I'm thrilled to have been the conduit on this one.
XO Amy

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